
Time in the Trees: How Nature Can Support Unpaid Carers
When we think about caring, we often think about the person receiving support.
The child with additional needs. The partner living with illness. The parent with dementia.
The friend who relies on us.
We don't always stop to think about the person doing the caring.
Yet behind every caring role is someone quietly juggling appointments, routines, responsibilities, worries and decisions. Someone who is almost always putting another person's needs before their own, day after day.
For many carers, taking time for themselves can feel like a luxury - or even something to feel guilty about.
But looking after your own wellbeing isn't selfish - it's essential.
Caring Can Be Both Rewarding and Challenging
Being a carer can bring moments of immense love, pride and connection. It can also be emotionally demanding, physically exhausting and, at times, incredibly isolating.
Many carers tell us they struggle to find time simply to pause. To do something that isn't another task on the list.
Even when opportunities for support exist, they can sometimes feel like another appointment to attend or another conversation where they're expected to explain their situation.
Sometimes what people need isn't another meeting. Sometimes they just need space.
Why Nature Matters
There is something remarkable about spending time outdoors.
Nature doesn't expect anything of us. It doesn't expect us to have the right words. It doesn't require us to be "coping." It just invites us to slow down.
An increasing body of research shows that spending time in natural environments can reduce stress, lower anxiety, improve mood and support emotional wellbeing. Even relatively short periods outdoors have been linked to lower levels of cortisol - the hormone associated with stress - and improvements in attention, sleep and overall mental health.
For unpaid carers, who often spend much of their time focused on someone else's needs, these moments of restoration can be incredibly valuable. A walk beneath the trees; the sound of birdsong; the warmth of a fire; creating something with natural materials. These aren't extravagant acts of self-care.
They're simple opportunities to reconnect - with nature, with others and sometimes with yourself.
More Than a Peer Support Group
One of the things we're determined on for Time in the Trees is that it isn't a traditional support group.
Of course, there will be opportunities to meet other carers who understand the unique challenges and joys of the caring role. Shared experiences have a way of making us feel less alone, and those connections often develop naturally.
But the focus isn't on sitting in a circle talking about caring. The focus is on being present in nature; whether that means exploring, creating, sharing experience round a campfire, learning, or just simply sitting. It's about giving yourself permission to do something - or nothing - for yourself.
Sometimes the best conversations happen side by side while walking through the woods or stirring something over the campfire - not because anyone asked them to happen, but because they naturally unfold.
And sometimes they don't happen at all. Sometimes people simply enjoy the quiet.
Both are equally valuable.
Time Together Matters Too
Alongside our sessions for carers, Time in the Trees will also include family sessions. These provide opportunities for carers, the people they care for and other family members to spend quality time together outdoors.
For many families, caring responsibilities can understandably shape everyday life. These sessions offer something a little different - an opportunity to make positive memories together and enjoy each other's company without the usual pressures of daily routines.
Nature has a wonderful way of creating opportunities for connection that don't require expensive days out or elaborate plans. Sometimes a muddy puddle, a den built from branches or a shared campfire can become the moments families remember most.
Building on What We've Learned
Over recent years, we've been privileged to support carers through our programmes in South Lanarkshire. Again and again, we've seen the difference that regular time outdoors can make - not just to wellbeing, but to confidence, connection and resilience.
We've seen people arrive feeling exhausted and leave smiling. We've witnessed the simple power of slowing down.
Thanks to the generous support of North Lanarkshire Carers Together, we're delighted to now be bringing Time in the Trees to unpaid carers across North Lanarkshire too.
An Invitation to Take Some Time for Yourself
If you're an upaid carer, this is your invitation. Not because we think you should be doing more - but because you deserve moments of fun, connection and restoration.
Whether you're looking for a little time for yourself, hoping to meet others who understand, or wanting to enjoy meaningful outdoor experiences with your family, we'd love to welcome you to spend some Time in the Trees.
Book your free space and come as little or as often as you like - just select the sessions you want to attend and fill in the booking form: www.bookwhen.com/